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Disconnecting from the Imposter!

You’re Feelings Are Valid

๐™Ž๐™ž๐™จ, ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช๐™ง ๐™›๐™š๐™š๐™ก๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ๐™จ ๐™–๐™ง๐™š ๐™ซ๐™–๐™ก๐™ž๐™™!

Letโ€™s talk about imposter syndrome.

Imposter Syndrome ๐™ž๐™จ ๐™ง๐™š๐™–๐™ก, and youโ€™re not alone.

Did you know that Imposter syndrome was introduced in 1978 by psychologists, Pauline Rose Clance, PhD, ABPP & Suzanne Imes, PhD. (Resource: mindbodygreen.com/articles/imposter-syndrome)?

Imposter syndrome is defined as a person dismissing oneโ€™s achievements and viewing it as โ€œluckโ€. 

Because of the feelings of:

Iโ€™m not good enough

Iโ€™m not deserving of success 

Iโ€™m going to be exposed of being a fraud 

I provide this resource because you may hear someone inform you that your feelings arenโ€™t real or excuses.

What Iโ€™ll tell you as someone that has experienced tendencies of imposter syndrome and perfectionism, your feelings are validโ€ฆhowever understand that your feelings ๐™–๐™ง๐™š๐™ฃโ€™๐™ฉ ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช๐™ง ๐™ž๐™™๐™š๐™ฃ๐™ฉ๐™ž๐™ฉ๐™ฎ and can be perceived as excuses when youโ€™re comfortable with self-imposing limitations over your life & business that leads to:

๐˜ฝ๐™ช๐™ง๐™ฃ๐™ค๐™ช๐™ฉ 

๐™‡๐™–๐™˜๐™  ๐™ค๐™› ๐™ฉ๐™ง๐™ช๐™จ๐™ฉ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช๐™ง ๐™จ๐™ฉ๐™ง๐™š๐™ฃ๐™œ๐™ฉ๐™๐™จ 

๐™Ž๐™š๐™š๐™ ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™š๐™ญ๐™ฉ๐™š๐™ง๐™ฃ๐™–๐™ก ๐™ซ๐™–๐™ก๐™ž๐™™๐™–๐™ฉ๐™ž๐™ค๐™ฃ 

So, how do you overcome imposter syndrome?

Below are a five tips (not all-inclusive) to move forward:

  1. Recognize your thoughts and feelings 
  2. Understand where your feelings are coming from 
  3. Reframe your thoughts and focus on what you know NOT what you donโ€™t know 
  4. Speak up and build your circle of support that ๐™˜๐™๐™–๐™ก๐™ก๐™š๐™ฃ๐™œ๐™š ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช๐™ง ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™จ๐™š๐™˜๐™ช๐™ง๐™ž๐™ฉ๐™ž๐™š๐™จ and elevate your growth personally & professionally 
  5. Own your inner genius 

For more tips & tools on normalizing healthy productivity over hustle, join the All in Flow Hub at https://lenitacornett.gumroad.com

XO

Lenita

Success Strategist, Resilience Expert & Well-being Coach/Mentor for Emerging Leaders/Solopreneurs ready to release burnout to reclaim who they are, do what they love & monetize their inner genius.


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March 18, 2023

3 Keys to Show Love During Women’s History Month

 As a woman and leader in the military and business, itโ€™s an honor to celebrate Women’s History Month. This month is filled with endless opportunities to recognize and honor the talents, strengths, and accomplishments of women throughout history. To spread the love by sharing ideas for inspirational action, Iโ€™ll share three simple ways to show love for Womenโ€™s History Month:

1. Educate Yourself: Invest time in learning about inspirational women who challenged social norms and made significant contributions throughout history. Decide how you want to consume your learning thatโ€™s intentional. You can learn in several ways through reading physical or eBooks, listening to educational podcasts, watching documentaries, or joining communities (online or local events) that showcase their accomplishments.

2. Share Your Knowledge: Now that you know, itโ€™s time to share! Share in your own unique way stories of inspirational women that continue to make history. You can share in many forms of medium (blogs, email series, long or short form video). Create connection and relevance using your own content through conversation, social media platforms, podcasts, community themes, celebrations, etc. The list is endless!

3. Celebrate Women 365 Days of the Year: We celebrate the lives and contributions of women during Women’s History Month, but it’s important weโ€™re intentional with recognizing women beyond Womenโ€™s History Month. Letโ€™s focus on celebrating and empowering women around the world every day of the year in life, career, and business of all industries!

P.S. If you are not part of our online community, join Creative Women Community at https://www.facebook.com/groups/creativewomenscommunity

XO

Lenita

Your Success Strategist & Wellbeing Coach/Facilitator for Emerging Leaders/Solopreneurs ready to release burnout to reclaim who they are, do what they love & monetize their inner genius.